I'll make something clear.
We're a T-X support forum for T-X products. When you purchase them, we expect you know how to use them (which means for those which need to be soldered, you know how to solder).
We're not here to teach you to solder - you should know how to do that before even attempting this. You clearly can't solder, so instead of doing the smart thing and learning (there are hundreds of pages on the web for help on soldering, including techniques, equipment etc ), you took the alternative route and thought you were too smart to learn first and dived right on in there. Well done you.
You're getting sh*tty replies (and deservedly so) as you decided not to read anything until you fcuked up and now you want help when it's too late. I've posted pics on soldering, as well as videos. I've even got a 'practice points' post in this section for points on your board you can practice soldering on without breaking it and even this has been overlooked.
If you're going to go through this RGH experience just doing what you want (i.e not reading) and crying for help when you fcuk it up, you'll never get anywhere.
First thing for you to do is send this to someone to salvage, if it's still possible.
Next, learn to solder before even attempting something like this again.