I got a very nice Aoyue Int 937 digital soldering station with a variable temperature setting on it fairly cheap from amazon. Its really nice, makes soldering a breeze, and is probably the best iron I've owned hands down. Weller makes some allright stuff to, the more money you put in something from weller the better the quality will be.
And I use .015" 62/36/2 Silver-Bearing Solder I picked up from radio shack that works very well on small electronics and xbox stuff. I used to use 60/40 rosin core solder but I found the other stuff a little easier to manage and goes on a little cleaner.