I always used a 15w iron and never had any problems soldering or removing stuff from a 360 mobo might wanna pick up some tip tinner I tin the tip wipe it across wet sponge add teeny bit of solder and away I go
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tip tinner eh i never had much luck with tip tinner it always made the solder on the tip of my iron ball up and not evenly coat the area of my tip i planned on using
if the solder does not evenly flow on the tip of the area i intend on useing, i take it to my bench grinder and dust it off a little bit, i find that for me personally a coarse ground tip will flow the solder really nicely as well as adhere (not ball up in globs on me) on the tip really well
tho im no expert at this kind of thing this is just what works really well for me
if i run across a stuborn spot of solder that does not want to melt like you are mentioning, i switch to a hotter iron and apply plenty of flux, in my experience no such thing as to much flux, i would rather burn the crap out of the flux and spend some time cleaning it up than lift traces or damage my project